Last December Sally fell ill just before Christmas day, and it ruined her Christmas. She had been out most nights in December. Her calendar was full of catching-up with people she hardly saw during the year, plus family functions, work functions, husamjandal her kids school functions. Sally is a people person and loves a party. Initially it felt great being invited to so many things and going along to the events. But she started to get tired. She hadn’t finished her Christmas shopping. And most nights were booked. She hadn’t had time to think about what she would buy her husband or her mum and dad. ooceanofgames

Part of the reason Sally “crashed” was that she felt she had to spend hours shopping looking for the presents. She felt under lots of pressure to get the right gift. And she felt under pressure at work to complete several projects before Christmas. Sally got sick and missed her own work Christmas function and her extended family event — two of the most important events at Christmas for Sally. She was still feeling unwell on Christmas day and so she didn’t feel the same joy as she usually did when her children opened their presents. She struggled through the day and she slept most of boxing day. moderntimes

This year is very different for Sally as she has applied 7 time management tips for surviving Christmas. Sally has made sure she books in her most important events first. She has then made sure she has time to recover in between the important events, viraltechnolgy which has meant she said no to some functions. Sally clarified expectations at work and was able to change the due date of several projects to January. Shopping was completely mastermovers different this year for Sally. She planned ahead and thought about the gifts she might buy. She used the internet to research the gifts.

More importantly Sally shorpnews also thought about the true meaning of Christmas and realised that it is not about the gift, but how much of herself is reflected in the gift. Sally made time to speak to her kids, friends and family about the true meaning of Christmas — the story of Jesus being born — and how different this is from the commercialised party and presents view of Christmas we can get caught up in. Sally scheduled time for herself this December. She took time to reflect on 2008 and how she felt about the year — and she feels much happier about her 2008
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Here are the time management tips that Sally used to make sure she has a great Christmas time in 2008.

• • See the people who mean the most to you, bishamconsulting rather than going to everything or the events you were invited to first

  Christmas can be a time where there are lots of events on and lots of people who want to “catch-up” before Christmas. We can fall in to the trap of saying yes to everything or too quickly, only to find that you have not made time for the most important people in your life. Don’t let Christmas be a time of “catch-ups” with people you only see once a year. Ask those people to book time in January or February. Make sure you connect with the people that mean the most to you at Christmas.

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• • Use your weekly planner to have a balanced Christmas, rather than finding you have something on every day for the last week or two before Christmas

  It is easy to fall in to the trap of going to many events before Christmas only to find that you are tired and run down when you get to Christmas Day. Set yourself and your family some guidelines about how much you want to have on before Christmas and make sure you are excited and looking forward to Christmas Day.

  • Do NOT use Christmas as an artificial deadline for yourself or others. ricoh

  Christmas can be used as a reason to get projects or tasks done, but I find that most businesses do not use the “product/outcome/report” until well into January (usually they don’t even look at it until after New Year. When you set these artificial deadlines you create more stress and pressure leading into Christmas. If you don’t really need the project or task done before Christmas, then set the deadline for early January.

  • Schedule recovery time — allow time to recover from late night events (and/or work), have alcohol free days and continue some exercise.

  Managing your energy levels is extremely important at Christmas time. Make sure you allow time to recover from those late nights. And give yourself some free time on the weekend and/or some early nights during the week so you can maintain high energy during Christmas time. Keep exercising, even if it is less often/time/intensity — some exercise goes a long way to helping you refresh and maintain your energy.

  • Know what gifts you want to buy BEFORE you go shopping AND where you can get them.

  You will save MASSIVE amounts of time and money when you do research before you go out to the shops. Use catalogues, the phone and especially the internet to do your shopping research before you go out. Then plan your trip to the mall and go to the store to buy the gift and get out. Most people will really like this approach. Some of you will want to explore the mall — that’s OK, BUT still do the research, you will find the experience much more enjoyable when you know what you need to get.

  • Spend time connecting with the real meaning of Christmas

  Talk to your kids, family and friends about the birth of Jesus. Give money or time to help charities or people in need. Meditate or pray. Give thanks for what you have (rather than complaining about what you don’t have).

  • Make time for yourself.

  Take some time to STOP and reflect. Reflect on what is happening for you in the lead up to Christmas, and will it make you happy. Reflect on 2008. Was it a good year for you and what will make 2009 a great year, a Personal best year.

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